Caring for Your Memory
Jog your memory
daily, open the screen door
for it when it whines.
Learn to listen for it,
figure out its sounds and
how to translate them,
its cautionary squeaks
and exhausted thumps. Don’t
forget to feed it, make
a note to refill its bowl
and leave yourself a voice mail
saying read the note.
Your memory will
become muscular according to
how you play with it,
huge haunches
but weak knees, or long-limbed
and limping. You will
always injure it
by what you do. There are
consequences for how
you call to it and
reward it, how and why
you scold it, bad
memory, horrible
memory. It isn’t what it used
to be, nimble, limber,
a climber. You have
been training it to dance alongside
you without any rest.